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(Kahlil Gibran)

Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you
You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
Which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday
You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
And He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far
Let your bending in the archer’s hand be for gladness;
For even as He loves the arrow that flies,
so He loves also The bow that is stable


Tuesday, April 05, 2005

WINNERS VERSUS LOSERS

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The Winner is always part of the answer;
The Loser is always part of the problem.

34
The Winner always has a program;
The Loser always has an excuse.

56
The Winner says, "Let me do it for you";
The Loser says, "That is not my job."

78
The Winner sees an answer for every problem;
The Loser sees a problem for every answer.

910
The Winner says, "It may be difficult but it is possible";
The Loser say, "It may be possible but it is too difficult."

1112
When a Winner makes a mistake, he says, " I was wrong";
When a Loser makes a mistake, he says, "It wasn't my fault."

1314
A Winner makes commitments;
A Loser makes promises.

1516
Winners have dreams;
Losers have schemes.

1718
Winners say, "I must do something";
Losers say, "Something must be done."

1920
Winners are a part of the team;
Losers are apart from the team.

2122
Winners see the gain;
Losers see pain.

2324
Winners see possibilities;
Losers see problems.

2528
Winners believe in win/win;
Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.

2930
Winners see the potential;
Losers see the past.

3132
Winners are like a thermostat;
Loser are like thermometers.

3334
Winners choose what they say;
Losers say what they choose.

3536
Winners use hard arguments, but soft words;
Losers use soft arguments, but hard words;

3738
Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;
Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.

3940
Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: "Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you";
Losers follow the philosophy, "Do it to others before they do it to you."

4142
Winners make it happen;
Losers let it happen.

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